Big family meals around the holidays can be a huge source of stress for special needs children and their parents, for neurodivergent adults, and for anyone with an eating disorder or special dietary needs. With the season upon us, I wanted to remind everyone to educate themselves on their loved ones' allergies and special diets, … Continue reading Repost: A Holiday Meal PSA
Follow-Up: ‘Twas the Night Before an Autism Christmas
I want to thank you all for the lovely comments after last week’s post. I appreciate everyone who reached out. The story I tell in this poem is based in part on my own family’s experience, and in part on so many other experiences that get shared this time of year. My heart breaks with … Continue reading Follow-Up: ‘Twas the Night Before an Autism Christmas
To the Classmates
To the Kindergarten classmate who came running with a weighted teddy bear when my son was crying at drop-off time--thank you...
The Mental Load of “Getting Help”
It seems to me that the powers that be really love giving extra work to people who are already overburdened.
Check In
The only consistent thing about life is that it always changes. Nine months ago, I posted an update about how well my son has been going to school. Now, it feels like we're right back to preschool. Regressions are a hallmark of autism. Anything can bring them on. A growth spurt, a physical ailment, a … Continue reading Check In
Ashley Lilley 